Letter to My Younger Self

January 8, 2026

Dear Nick,

As I reflect on the incredible journey we’ve undertaken, I can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of pride and gratitude. You began this journey with dreams of becoming a professional golfer, and now, 20 years later, you celebrated your 30th birthday—a milestone that the doctors were once unsure of upon your birth. This past year has been a significant milestone for you—one of the hardest years of your life, filled with profound challenges and remarkable growth.

As you think back to those formative days, memories of you hitting balls on the range with Eddie and Cleve inevitably come to mind. You often reminisce about how you would do just about anything to have those moments back—the times when Eddie would re-grip clubs and wipe the solvent drippings on his apron, and you would watch Cleve hit that high bomb draw with his seven iron. You miss those days dearly. Golf will only get cooler as you get older; you will have the opportunity to finish fifth in the Pennsylvania State Championship during your senior year of high school. You will play in two NCAA national championships and even be named an Academic All-American, which was one of your goals.

Throughout this journey, you will meet someone in third grade named Rich Tomasello, who will become one of your most trusted friends and confidants. Additionally, in your freshman year of high school, you will meet Jack Joyce, who, along with Rich, will always be there for you—listening and supporting you no matter what challenges come your way. Also, that little girl you made fun of at the junior golf camps at Glenmaura National when you were a kid, Cleve’s daughter Hollis, will become one of your best friends and someone you bounce almost every idea off of.

One of the most important lessons you've learned along the way is how to cultivate your cool, calm confidence. Remember those Coke bottle rim glasses you wore in your youth? They represented a phase of your life where you often felt unsure and uncertain. But those insecurities are temporary. Confidence is not about being perfect; it’s about embracing who you are—not just the accolades or accomplishments but the complete package that is you.

Your accomplishments are nothing short of remarkable. As a member of the Teaching and Coaching Committee for the Philadelphia PGA, you are not simply teaching; you are actively shaping the future of golf. It is inspiring to witness how you have contributed to elevating the standards of golf education in your community. The impact you are making extends far beyond the golf course; it resonates deeply within the hearts of those who aspire to be the very best.

Being recognized by Golf Digest as one of America’s Best Young Teachers and one of the top instructors in Pennsylvania speaks volumes about your dedication and the positive impact you have made on countless lives. This honor is not just a reflection of your skill; it showcases your unwavering commitment to uplifting others in the game.

Mentoring youth golfers has become one of the most fulfilling experiences of your career. Watching these young athletes grow and develop not only as players but also as individuals is truly rewarding. You’re imparting more than just the mechanics of a perfect swing; you're instilling in them the values of hard work, discipline, and resilience. Just because you didn’t play well enough to make it onto the PGA Tour, as you once hoped, does not diminish your journey. Rather, you’ve been granted the incredible opportunity to transform lives through the game of golf. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

Moreover, becoming a PGA of America Golf Professional is an achievement that carries significant weight. It signifies years of hard work, determination, and a relentless pursuit of excellence.

When Papa passed away shortly after you turned 21, it became abundantly clear to you just how important family and legacy are. The one thing you miss most is not having the chance to share a beer with him—a simple yet profound moment you would have cherished. Changing your last name from Johnson to Biondi was more than just a name change; it was a profound way to honor the man who gave you everything and instilled in you the values that you hold dear. His spirit and lessons have shaped much of who you are today.

The relationship you had with your mom was a complicated one, characterized by both love and challenges. Yet, you are incredibly thankful to Ryan French and the Fire Pit Collective for sharing your story and shedding light on that complexity. Being able to articulate those feelings and get them off your chest has been cathartic.

At some point in time, as you are preparing for Asian Tour qualifying school, you will call a guy by the name of Michael Little, who will help you with your putting. Michael will help you get involved in the PGA of America. Shortly thereafter, you will meet Jon Arthur, who will give you your start in golf at Radley Run Country Club. You will then become engulfed in the biomechanics of the golf swing, and Michael Jacobs will help you immerse yourself in golf science. These men will help to shape your career as you know it.

Additionally, that little book you wrote, titled Making the Turn, encapsulates not only your experiences but also the wisdom you have gained throughout your journey. It’s a remarkable accomplishment, especially considering where you started. Not too bad for a kid from Scranton, Pennsylvania, who was often labeled as a C student! Your story demonstrates that success is not solely defined by academic excellence; it is about resilience, passion, and the determination to create a meaningful life.

Sharing your story and insights in Making the Turn is not just about your personal growth; it is about inspiring others to overcome their challenges and pursue their dreams—just as you did.

As you continue along your path, embrace the world of social media, creating videos for platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. You are helping to demystify the game of golf and make it accessible for everyone. With every video and lesson, remember your tagline: "Happy Golfing!" It captures the essence of what you want to impart—a love for the game that is enjoyable and fulfilling.

Lastly, as Nana is now 81 years old, cherish the moments spent together. Everyone eventually starts to walk slower, and she is no different. Make sure to spend that time with her. Life is a beautiful collection of moments, and it’s essential to savor each one. Papa always said, "You have to make your own breaks in this world. Make your own luck," and that’s exactly what you’re doing.

So, as you forge ahead, keep striving for excellence, continue nurturing the next generation, and never cease to share your love for golf with the world. This journey is still unfolding, and I eagerly anticipate all that you will accomplish in the future.

Words by NB